Wednesday, September 25, 2013

1 Month Down!

Yesterday was Ryan's 1-month birthday and it has definitely been a wonderful, crazy, busy, life-changing, amazing month.  Josh and I learned: 1) how to function on three non-consecutive hours of sleep 2) bounce, sway, and sing our way to sanity and 3) what the meaning of true, unconditional love is.  We've had so many visitors, calls, texts, and support from all of our loved ones and friends and have even heard from several people we'd previously lost touch with.  This past month has been the most wonderful, awe-inspiring month of my life and I am so very happy God chose us to be Ryan's parents.  Every day I thank God for this gift--the gift of parenthood.  We feel so incredibly blessed and happy to be on this road together.  What an amazing journey it's been so far and I can't wait to watch her grow (not TOO fast!) and see who she'll become.

A few pictures from month 1:

                                                               Hello, world!  8-24-13

            Mommy holding me for the first time--she had a HUGE smile on her face!
                                  Daddy's cute grin when Mommy FINALLY handed me over. :)



                                                              It's really real--I'm all theirs!

                                             
BB and Papaw


                                                        Currently my favorite place to chill.

 I'm not crazy about baths yet, but I love when mommy wraps me in my hooded towel afterward.


                     My cousin Caroline and I are 12 days apart and we are going to be a handful!


  BB and Papaw had an awesome party for me when I came home--they said they wanted to "show me off" to their friends. :)
  I have two great-grandmothers!  This is my dad's grandmother, Nanny.

Caroline's big sis Stella loved me from the second she laid eyes on me.
My other great-grandmother and my great aunt Carrie.
Daddy made me dress up for a photo shoot--I pretended I didn't like it at first, but I really did.
Yep, I am totally into this modeling thing.
Mommy loves to hold me really close to her to make me feel safe.  

Monday, September 23, 2013

The Tale of How We Came to Be a Family of Three

I've always known I wanted to be a mother.  It's something that's just always been inside of me.  Of course, I also work with kids every day.  I don't know too many teachers who don't enjoy children and want their own.  Josh and I had talked about a family early on in our relationship and I was so glad we were on the same page.  He's such an amazing guy and I could see his "daddy" qualities when he played with my cousin Stella or anytime he was around children.  I just knew he would be the perfect father.

The day we found out having our own biological children was probably not going to happen was a sad, sad day, and that's all I'm really going to say about it.  We decided to just enjoy our first year of marriage together and push pause on starting a family.  6 months later, we realized how very selfish we'd been and how badly we wanted to be parents.  It took time, but we were finally able to see that biologically having children is just one way to become parents.  That wasn't the way God wanted us to be parents, so we set out on the road less traveled.

We did some research and went with a California-based company we learned about through a friend.  The month of February was a complete whirlwind of home studies, background checks, physicals, copies of pay stubs, etc.  I often got frustrated with all of the hoops we had to jump through to become parents but when we received the call on July 9 learning we'd been chosen by a birth mom, all my frustrations melted into tears of joy.  Right there in the Panera parking lot on a three-way call with my husband and the adoption agency, I heard the lady say, "You're going to be a mommy and a daddy."  I just completely melted.

One and a half months later, Josh and I were speeding through Kentucky on our way to Missouri to get there in time for our baby's arrival.  We drove all night, got there at 4:30 a.m. , and Ryan Michelle Lynch entered the world at 6:10 a.m. on August 24, 2013.  We were there when she took her first breath and it was the most amazing moment of my life and I will never, ever, EVER forget it.  My eyes filled with tears (just like they are as I'm typing this) and my heart filled with unspeakable joy as Josh and I held onto each other and watched the nurse wash her off and take her measurements and vitals.  When she handed her over to me----I can't even describe it.  No words.  Just emotions.  And a lot of them.

And that, my friends, is a very short summary of how we came to be a family of three.  There was sadness, worry, anxiety, loneliness, and many highs and lows along the way.  But the second she arrived, every tear, every sleepless night, and every panicked moment become worth the amount of joy and love she filled our hearts with.  I love this little precious, perfect girl every single bit as much as if I'd carried her for 9 months.  She is our daughter through and through.

I wouldn't change a single thing about this journey.  NOT ONE SINGLE THING.


Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
                                  --Robert Frost







Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Long Time, No See

Hey, there--it's Lauren.  Yes, I kind of forgot about you, blog.  Yes, I've left you cold and alone for many, many months.  Life took over.  Ups, downs, the whole bit.  But then, I realized too many amazing things have happened for me to not record them.  This blog is great because as much as I like to share it as a way to keep in touch with those I may not see often, it's mostly for myself.  It's a way for me to look back on different parts of my life--kind of like my journal with pictures.  I have so, so much to tell you about I'm practically bursting at the seams with anticipation and excitement.  I'm like a kid on Christmas morning!  I can't wait.  I will be back soon, but first I have to gather my thoughts and get my bearings.  Here's a big 'ole hint of the goodness to come: